1)Catch his attention, but in adifferent manner that all girlsusually do. Your goal is to make himremember you and like you for who you are, notjust for your good looks. Make him think you'respecial - be charming, smart, sexy, and fun to bearound; in a word, show off your best parts. Lethim know you're not like the other girls - so hewill eventually treat you differently, too.2) Make him respect you. Faking affectionis forbidden. This guy will show no respectfor you if you're willing to accept everything thatcomes from him. When he goes overboard, forinstance saying unpleasant things to you ormaking fun of you, gently, but firmly warn himyou don't accept this kind of behaviour. Also, becareful how YOU behave yourself. If you look likeyou're trying too hard and flirt with every guyyou encounter, he will think you're promiscuousand treat you accordingly.3). Try getting to know him a little. Being"just friends" works in the beginning. Butbeware: don't act COMPLETELY like his pals;don't lose your femininity. But don't makeromantic allusions just yet. Getting to know himbetter will prove helpful later: you will knowwhen he's lying, what's his general attitudetowards girls and so on.4). now you can try to flirt with hima little. Don't make it too obvious though.Subtlety is the key here. He will most likelyunderstand the message and respond. But don'tlet him get too comfortable; as soon as hewants to get closer to you, you'll going to haveto reject him gently. But let him know he can callyou again. Tell him you *kind of* like him, butyou don't fully trust him yet- and he'll have toprove himself worthy of your trust. At thispoint, he's already supposed to like you back, ifyou've shown him your best traits AND a littlebit of interest in him. He will hopefully tryharder to get you- these guys have a huge ego,and wouldn't like the idea of not being able toget a girl. Tell him that you can change yourmind if you go on a few *real* dates with him,and during these dates, he must prove himselfto gain your full trust.5) These dates will decide whetherhe's the right guy for you, or not.They shouldn't be official (in the way that itdoesn't mean you two have a relationship), sothere can be no 'break-up' in case things don'twork out between you two, and reason no.2:because such guys act differently in arelationship than they do in a non-official date.Make them fun, interesting and original; you canchoose romantic to unusual locations, youdecide; just make sure he doesn't get bored withyou around. Be yourself, so he will get to knowthe real you; and -very important- don't getjealous if he happens to look admiringly at othergirls (jealousy will turn him off instantly; afterall, you're not yet a couple).. Note: after watching a movie 'think like a man' that's what brought the idea of this thread ladies I think you should watch that movie. Composed--by---samflexxy
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