"How Do I Get My Ex Back'"

Hi everyone! So the other day I posted the dilemma I was in and thankfully some of you gave me matured advice. Here is the link to the thread : http://www.nairaland.com/3697979/love-two-girls-wants-one.I was In love with two ladies and wanted to pick one. I eventually settled with one. The problem is the lady I picked I took her home to show my mum and she was super shocked. (She is unaware that I and my ex had parted ways.) She rebuked me strongly and warned me not to think of bringing any girl to the house to show her if not my ex. (I understand she really like my ex).She didn't even give any reason for rejecting the girl I brought she just didn't want to even hear us out.I had to allow the girl go in peace. Thankfully we had not gone far in the relationship. Not like I don't love her. But I think I love my ex more. Poor me right' (Currently single).The big problem here is my ex doesn't even talk to me, she doesn't pick my calls. If only she would come back I'd ensure that the mistakes I did that led to the breakup in the first place won't arise again (we dated for three years). She went through a lot with me when I was still a student and broke. I am comfortable and I wanna reward her.My question now is was I right to let the girl go on account that my ex has the love of my mum' (I love her too still) The girl I introduced to my mum was always complaining of my attitude to the relationship anyway. (She was always complaining of how I don't ever stop talking about my ex).Has anyone broken up with his/her ex and reconciled a second time with the relationship strong like it was before' If peradventure she has a boyfriend what are my chances of succeeding considering the fact that we dated for long.(more than 3 and a half years.Should I try harder in convincing my mum to accept the girl'Love is really complicated. I feel like just being alone forever.Insults are welcomed as usual.
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