7 things you should say when an LGBTQ person comes out to you

Coming out can be the best day of an LGBTQ persons life. Though its freeing, it isnt always easy. In fact, coming out is actually one of the hardest things a person can do in a society that harms, marginalizes, and perpetuates violence against them. Despite the success stories and progress, there are still so many cases of discrimination. According to the Human Rights Campaign, an estimated 40% of homeless youth identify as LGBTQ. The HRC cites family rejection as one of the main causes of homeless for LGBTQ teens.Sometimes parents are extremely positive, affirming, and compassionate. Ideally, all parents should make one thing clear as they learn and process: that no matter what, they love you unconditionally. According to the HRC, these words can make a major difference in a teens emotional state. 41% of youth who are out to their family say theyre "pretty happy" or "very happy," and those who are out are actually more likely to achieve.As a parent, theres not really a foolproof guide on how to raise a successful, happy LGBTQ child or how to adequately prepare them for the experience of entering a world that isnt always accepting. There are, however, some things you can say to your child to help ease the process of coming out, and there are statistics that prove the importance of your support.Here are seven affirming and helpful things that an LGBTQ person needs to hear when coming out.'I love you.'This is important. These words mean the most because at the end of the day, even if youve promised to love your kid unconditionally in the past, it doesnt mean that they dont need a reminder. Your love for your child should come first and foremost no matter how you feel or where youre at in your relationship."What can I do to help'"Offering to help isnt just the polite thing to do, its also necessary during a time of a lot of emotions and stress. Helping can come in the form of offering to get ice cream or head to their favorite restaurant, but it can also mean listening, remaining non-judgmental, and aiding them in reaching out to others with the news. Its always good to have an ally, especially when they happen to be a parent. "I support you."These words may be enough to elicit a sigh of relief. For so many members of the community, it feels as though parents either tolerate their identity or shame them for it. Neither of these is ideal. You dont have to go to a pride parade in a rainbow costume (though that could be fun!), but you should at least express your ability to encourage your kid to be themselves.Resources like PFLAG have some great info on how you can begin to get involved in LGBTQ advocacy groups.See the rest of the story at Business Insider
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