I'm dating four men, who should I choose

Dear Yemisi,I am 17 years old. I am dating four men. To the first guy, I happened to be his first love. The second guy is the one I love with all my heart, the third dropped all his girlfriends because of me and the last happened to be my schoolmate who I also love. I want to drop three out of the four, but I don't know those to drop.Please, help me out.Bisi.Dear Bisi,You are not ripe for the adventure you are about to take. I am of this opinion because if you are mature enough you would have known who to pitch your tent with. Left to me, you don't need any boyfriend for now and I will even say that none of these four guys should be considered at all.The reasons you have given for the four are too trivial for consideration. If I were you, I'll ensure that our interaction is nothing but casual. Though you did not give the ages of these guys, I guess they are your age mate.By every standard, you are all minors going by the constitution of the land and you are still under the guidance and protective eyes of your parents. Do you know what love is all about' You are only displaying infatuation that can land you in a mess if not properly controlled. I am not saying you should not have friends from the opposite sex, but you must be careful the way you go about sustaining your interaction so as not to miss it. If the guys get to know that they are four competing for your attention, they will in turn mess you up and call you names. You have to tell each one of them that you will apppreciate you remain as friends and not lovers as you want every form of amorous affair suspended for now as your education is your priority.Don't be fooled by their so-called admiration that would have made you to lose your sense. If they appreciate you for your physical features, just thank them and remain focused. All the guys are after is nothing but fun that you will have in abundance later in life.Bisi, a stitch in time is said to have saved nine. You will be making a statement that you are not the frivolous type by letting them know that you are not yet available. Stop deceiving yourself, you cannot love two guys the same way not to talk of four at the same time. The criteria to draw for the selection of the best are not even known to me. By the time you make your stand known that your destiny cannot be toyed with, it will send the right signal to the one who is actually sincere with you.
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