I thought I knew what dirtiness was until my cousin's sister started living with us. We gave her a room, a roof over her head until she finds her bearing.<br><br>She's an orphan, almost going to 28 years, and sells food on Sundays for cash.<br><br>But, looking at her, she's the replica of the word 'unappealing.'<br><br>Her hair is always shabby, dirty, and she never attempt to even braid it to keep it in order. Black is beautiful, but hers comes in brown patches and acne.<br><br>She doesn't even care.<br><br>We have a water closet, and she's ready to keep popping without an attempt to flush. The last time I traveled and left the home for a week, the toilet was beyond what I could comprehend.<br><br>To the point I had to do renovation, repainted the wall, and had to hire a cleaner to help wash the toilet thoroughly.<br><br>I couldn't risk catching a disease doing it myself. That was how bad it was.<br><br>After doing all these, she stopped using the toilet, but would prefer to pop in the compound with a black nylon at night.<br><br>Sometimes, she even forget to throw them away. I had woke up very early in the morning. Saw her bucket and wanted to use it, what I saw changed my day.<br><br>I saw her feces, and since then I vowed never to touched a bucket that is isn't mine.<br><br>Aside from her protruding stomach which she does little to hide, the wrapper she wears every evening have never seen water in months.<br><br>Women are supposed to be conscious of their unclothedness, but not this cousin of mine.<br><br>She can avoid all the bathrooms, and choose to bathe outside in the open at night. <br><br>Like, around 8 to 9 pm when everyone is still very much awake. <br><br>Sometimes children will bump in on her unintentionally, and the kid will run away traumatized by what he or she have seen.<br><br>I dare not go into details to recount how she prepares the food she sales, and how dirty her coolers and kitchen utensils can swim with maggots for 6 days before she finally washes them on Saturday and prepares food on Sunday for her esteemed customers.<br><br>She's not beautiful facially, nor wear makeup or earrings since it's against her belief. <br><br>Doesn't wear clothes that suit her. If she dresses like an mbeke, that wouldn't be a problem. I just don't understand her dressing at all, coupled with her dirty look.<br><br>When it comes to religion, hers is the worse, jumping from one church to the other. And worse, we hardly sleepy at midnight.<br><br>She is always in battle with demons, with her speaking of tongues that don't just sound ridiculous, but deafening and irritating.<br><br>She's just 28, and I doubt if any man has ever stopped her on the road, and I still suspect she have never laid with a man before.<br><br>She's not mentally unstable if that is what most of you might think.<br><br>She's lively, knows how to joke and hold conversations like we all do. But when it comes to her body, grooming, overall cleaningness, she's zero.<br><br>There are grades of dirtiness, but when it comes to a stage where someone now dines and wines with feces, then there is a problem somewhere.<br><br>She's shapeless and doesn't want to do anything about it despite my numerous advise. She eats junk, like...<br><br>She runs to the backyard, gets some vegetables and fry it up with some concoctions and food is ready.<br><br>I know all their foods, and the things she cooks is nothing less than a concoction. I've eat her food once and my stomach testified.<br><br>A thoroughly analysis of her personality fascinates me to some extent. Is this her personality' Something that is genetically engineered into her that she has no control over'<br><br>Can she change'<br><br>Do you think I can help her, how Click here to read full news..