<blockquote>This was the only picture I actually have from my wedding.<br><br>Till date I tell people that <b>my cameraman ran away with our wedding pictures and video</b>.<br><br>And to top it all <b>hes my friend.<br>We once shared rooms together</b>.<br><br>I dont even know if hes alive or dead.<br><br>Before you do wedding or marry in Nigeria, factor these things in:<br><br>1. <b>Your cameraman can disappoint you</b>.<br>Have a friend record everything on your phone or their phone just in case o. You never can tell<br><br>2. <b>Not everyone at your wedding came to celebrate you.</b><br>Some came to see if you really got married.<br>About three people gave me empty envelopes and still collected wedding souvenirs.<br>Except youre running charity, open some envelopes especially from people you didnt invite.<br><br>3. <b>Your caterers or decorators can mess you up</b>.<br>Always call them two days before your wedding to remind them.<br><br>4. <b>Bride price is more important than white wedding.</b><br>If you dont have money for church wedding but youve paid bride price you are fully married.<br><br>5. <b>Dont borrow money to do wedding</b>.<br>Whatever you spend is non-refundable.<br>Dont deceive yourself with they will spray us money.<br>It doesnt work like that.<br><br>6. <b>Court marriage is cheaper and more peaceful</b>.<br>If wedding budget is stressing you go to the registry and enjoy your home.<br>You can do white wedding later when youre financially stable.<br><br>7. <b>I dont regret getting married. I regret feeding people who didnt care</b>.<br>Till date someone still dey vex say he no chop food at my wedding.<br>Mind you he brought nothing.<br><br>8. <b>If your white wedding budget can pay 2 years rent and fund your business pick rent and business.<br>Pay bride price and move on.</b><br>You can go back to a pastor to bless your vows. Its done everywhere.<br><br>9. <b>As a man if you have something putting food on your table, you can marry</b>.<br>Dont wait till youre a millionaire.<br><br>10. <b>Daily income sometimes better than monthly salary.</b><br>Im speaking from experience.<br><br>11. <b>As a woman dont pressure your man to do this and do that for wedding</b>.<br>Wedding is one day.<br>Marriage is for life.<br>If he spends everything on one day, both of you will feel it later.<br>And <b>those people youre trying to impress they wont answer you when life hits</b>.<br><br>12. <b>Some of us ran into debt after wedding. Dont be like us.</b><br>Do what you can afford. Leave the rest.<br><br>Highest theyll gossip for one week. After thateverybody moves on.<br><br>People have short memory.<br><br>13. <b>Working together with your wife is very important.</b><br>Some of the biggest battles Ive won we fought them together.<br>She always tells me:<br>Babe, weve overcome a lot. This one wont finish us.<br><br>Work with your spouse.<br>Youll always come out stronger.<br><b>Na picture we no get. But the love strong</b><br>Weddings dont build homes wisdom does Choose.</blockquote><br><a rel=ugc href="https://www.facebook.com/100003406149540/posts/pfbid0ESuoxeGq789Wmv31HcuSfmFEFKWkZhbp1gnofPxdAzjx7iMdVT6GoH9dMtfoxBKtl/'app=fbl">https://www.facebook.com/100003406149540/posts/pfbid0ESuoxeGq789Wmv31HcuSfmFEFKWkZhbp1gnofPxdAzjx7iMdVT6GoH9dMtfoxBKtl/'app=fbl</a>
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